How to Use Sex to be More Successful

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Sex is power. And we totally mean that in a very non-prostitute sense. See, sex can drive success because chances are if you’re happy and confident in the bedroom, that confidence just naturally spreads to other areas of your life. It’s not just power over other people, but self-empowerment too. Sex impacts every single area of your life, from your health to your mood to your career. Save your fantasies of pretending to be Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman for sexy role playing games and let’s talk about how sex can help you find success beyond the bedroom.

What You Can Learn from the Alpha Males

Alpha males don’t just exist on the pages of romance novels – they’re real! These mythic beasts are easy to pick out of a crowd because they’re larger-than-life, commanding attention from men and women alike. In the animal world, the alpha male is usually supercharged with high levels of testosterone – and their male counterparts in the concrete jungle aren’t that different.

Instead of leading a literal pack, these human alpha males have power – power suits, power salaries, and power rank. It may sound simple, but they can thank their testosterone levels in part for their success. The increased levels of testosterone make them more dominant, aggressive and more willing to take initiative. They use biology to help them conquer their territory and attain positions of power.

But men haven’t cornered the market on power hormones because the level of estrogen women possess helps to give them power too. Women with high levels of estrogen can use it to their advantage by appearing more enticing and using their charms to win people over. It can be used on your boss, your partner, or even the teenage kid behind the counter at the store. The point is, testosterone isn’t the big dog everyone thinks it is – estrogen is pretty powerful too.

Unlock the Power of Your Beauty

The way alpha males are seen as ruggedly handsome and alluring works for alpha females too – they’re seen as more physically attractive. When you have ample estrogen levels, your voice is more sensual, your body is more voluptuous, and your skin is softer. Is there a way you can raise your estrogen levels? Well, we’re glad you asked because the answer is a definite yes! Your estrogen level will rise when you’re sexually aroused or when you’re having sex. So, it stands to reason that plenty of sex will help you to be more physically appealing and alluring!

Dealing with Stress

If you are feeling stressed, your go-to may involve a night out with your best girlfriends and a bottle of wine, but there’s another way to combat stress you may not have considered: sex. Sex is a great way to burn off stress since it stimulates more than just your lady bits. See, when you’re experiencing sexual pleasure, your brain releases dopamine, a hormone that counters the effects of stress on your body. It relaxes you and protects your health from the dangers of chronic stress. If you can think of no other reason to hit the sheets with your partner, do it to de-stress and make all that estrogen work for you!

Make Health – and Sex — a Priority

If you can protect your health and well-being, then everything else in your life will fall into place. Your health can be a springboard for your success both in your work relationships and personal relationships. In fact, sex may be just what the doctored ordered when it comes to protecting your health.

Sex is fun, so people don’t tend to view it as work – but it’s a workout! It’s good for your cardiovascular health, helping you to avoid heart disease and strokes as you get older. It also helps to strengthen your immune system to help protect your body from viruses. Sex may even help you to avoid breast cancer and your partner to avoid prostate cancer since sexual pleasure triggers the release immunoglobulin, something that helps your body to heal itself. Marvin Gaye was totally serious about sexual healing, it seems.

Boost Your Confidence!

Another undeniable thing about sex: It boosts your confidence. When you are found desirable by other people, it just makes you feel good whether you’re in a relationship or still playing the dating field. No matter if you’re dating or already married, one thing for sure is that all that confidence will keep your partner (potential partner!) on his toes!

This is what we meant when we said that sex can help you find success beyond the bedroom. When you are happy and confident in your sex life, it will permeate to other areas of your life. Think about it – if you’re confident in your skills and abilities, then you can make anyone else believe in them too. Whether it is a presentation at work, a job interview, or a date – when people sense a person in command and confident, they’ll have no problem following wherever that person is leading, whether it’s the boardroom or the bedroom. And let’s face it, if you can master the art of the handjob, then you can master just about anything!

You possess in you the power to do anything, so make what you have work for you. You may not be Taylor Swift or even Julia Roberts, but who says you need to be? You simply need to be the best that you can, and if you take care of yourself and project your confidence to the world, then the sky’s the limit for your personal and professional success. Just don’t forget to have plenty of sex.

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